Vibrator Sex: Secrets Ways To Get Better Orgasms With Your Vibrator
Author: Abbie Acworth
It is simple isn't it? The strong vibrations from your vibrator stimulate the clitoris and vagina to bring you to a great orgasm more quickly than anything else!
Of course, for most women in real life, things are not so simple. Here are four secrets to help you get the best out of your vibrator and give you even better orgasms!
1) Lots of lubricant.
The number one rule (well, one of the number one rules!) for sex is: make sure you are well lubricated. This is not just to prevent soreness from rubbing. Lots of lubrication feels wonderfully sensual, allows the sex toy to slide over your skin without sticking or pulling.
Although you may have plenty of natural lubrication most women are helped by adding some out of a bottle. This is where you have to be careful. Water based lubricants are suitable for use with any sex toy vibrator, but they do tend to dry up over a long session. On the other hand, silicone based lubricants do not dry and stay slippery for much longer. They can be used on all sex toys except those made out of silicone which tends to soften the surface of the silicone sex toys.
2) Move it around.
When you first use your vibrator you may find a spot that gives the most pleasure. You may then be tempted to keep the vibrator there until you come. However the nerves at this spot tend to get used to the vibrations and then the stimulation falls away. With frequent long term use on one area you can cause permananent desensitisation. This is unlikely except in extreme cases.
If you have such a 'electric' spot the best thing to do is to stimulate it with the vibrator for a while and then move the vibrator around it nearby. Come back to the special position from time to time. By doing this you will keep the area fully responsive and increase you pleasure greatly. If you have more than one sensitive points then you can go from one to another as well as stimulating the area close to each one.
3) Start low and work up.
Almost all modern vibrators have a power controller. Adjusting the controller to it's highest setting the vibrations will be very strong. So much so they will possibly be too much to enjoy until you are very turned on (though remember people do vary a lot in how sensitive they are). For most people it is best to start with a low power setting and then increase the power in stages as you get more turned on. Then when you about to orgasm turn up to full power (or the highest power you can take) to propel you firmly over the top.
A variation on this method can work well. Use the method of slowly increasing the power until you are near to orgasm. Then reduce the power slightly to hold yourself on the brink for as long as you want (or can bear!) to build up your desire until you are desperate for orgasm. Finally turn up the power and satisfy your need with an earth shattering orgasm.
4) Mix and match the action.
Many vibrators are multi-action, especially rabbit style vibrators. These often have two vibrators and a rotating shaft. One vibrator vibrates the main shaft and the other provides the clitoral stimulation. Then there often is a facility to cause beads to rotate in the shaft and/or cause the shaft to wave around. This sort of rotation motion is designed to stimulate the inner vagina walls.
If you buy one of these it is a very good idea to choose one where you can independently control the various parts. If you have every thing in action when you start you session it is more than likely that you will find it all too much. Just like avoiding a straightforward vibrator turned up to full power right at the start, begin with just one function.
If you like to start with some clitoral and no vaginal stimulation use the tip of the vibrator (not the rabbit bit) to stimulate your clitoris. Or, maybe you prefer vaginal entrance stimulation to get you started so use the tip to stimulate that adjusting the power to suit.
Only when you are ready for intense and general stimulation of your vagina and clitoris should you turn on all functions. Even then it is quite possible that you will find that, when you are near orgasm, choosing just one or two out of the three or more functions works best to give you a best orgasms.
I am sure these tips will help you to get better orgasms from your sex toy vibrator. Don't forget to experiment too - your own individual responses are key to getting the most out of vibrators.
Author Bio:
Abbie Acworth has had a long term interest in sex, sex toys and sexuality and now writes articles for the UK on-line shop SexTingles that sells sex toys and sexy clothes. For a wide range of examples of vibrators see: vibrators.
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